Sunday, September 30, 2012

I need brain bleach...

I was out and about the other day and saw some things that no one should EVER have to see.  I needed a 50 gallon bottle of brain bleach by the time I got home and sadly 2 of the places I saw these things were the children's hospital and my sons school.
Im not a small person. Im a little overweight but I'm OK with my size because I'm healthy. I used to be around 220lbs and that was in high school so i know what its like to be a big girl and even then I was proud of my body. BUT I wasn't so proud of it that i was walking around with all of it hanging out. I still don't!  I love my fluffy people. Most of my friends are fluffy people and I have only ever dated 2 guys that weren't big guys.  One of them was over 300lbs. Obviously I don't care what someone's weight is. What I do have a problem with is big people in little people clothes *que fat man in a little coat song*.  Ladies if you want to wear shorts that's great! But please think before you wear them. Your first thought shouldn't be "does it look like my pussy is trying to eat my shorts?" The second thought should be "are my ass cheeks hanging out the back of my shorts?"  Next would be "is there a blood stain in the crotch or on the ass of them?"  And finally "are there any other stains or any rips in them?"  These are things that may be OK at home, but they are NEVER OK in public. I shit you not I was at the hospital with worm and this woman, who was every bit of 350lbs, was wearing some skin tight shorts and it looked like her pussy was trying to eat them!  My first thought was "holy shit...if her twat tries any harder to eat those things that button is going to go flying and someone's gonna die!"  Tight is one thing but when peoples lives are at risk if the button comes off you might want to rethink them. It wasn't too much later when i saw anothed bbig woman who was wearing some white shorts, they weren't *too* tight, and her pussy wasn't trying to eat them(thank god) but she bent over and there was a big old blood stain on them.  And I'm not talking one of those "oops" spots that we have all had, it wasn't even a new stain.  Im talking, there's no way she was using any kind of pad or tampon when aunt flow visited last month kind of stain. *gag*.  I understand starting your period and not knowing because its not supposed to start yet, I understand a small stain, I can even understand a red spot, but an old nasty stain is in no way appropriate to be wearing, at all, ever.  So skip ahead to being at the school and there's another big ol' girl in some shorts where her ass cheeks are hanging out the bottom of them, along with the pockets out the bottom of the front. Lemme tell ya, its nasty seeing a skinny chick wearing some shit like that, I damn sure don't want to see your hail damaged cottage cheese ass.  Now before someone wants to get all ass hurt about me saying its narsty when a skinny chick does it, lemme explain a bit. Have some self respect. If you think you have to let your ass hang out your pants to get a mans attention then you aren't going to attract a man worth a fuck because all he is seeing when he looks at you is an easy fuck. Then y'all Wanna whine about how you can't find a good man. Here's a tip sweetheart, dress and act like you have just a little class and you just might find one.  I kind of got off topic there didn't I?  Anyways, ladies for the love of all things holy, look in a mirror before walking out of the house. As a friend if what you have on is appropriate. Or at the very least snap a pic of your outfit and post it on fb and ask what people think. If they tell you you look like you belong on the corner or you look like a nasty bum then go change and try again. There is no reason anyone should be dressing like this and no one wants to see it. Be proud of who you are and be comfortable with what size you are, but dress to flatter your figure not to let it all hang out.
As always comments are always welcome and please shard my page with your friends <3

Sunday, September 23, 2012

I just don't get it...

There are a lot of things I don't understand and I am totally OK with that.  There are other things that I don't understand and I so not OK with it.  This is something that has been bugging the hell out of me for a long time now and maybe one of you can help me out because so far I haven't been able to get a decent answer.  Why do men(and kids) feel the need to announce when they are going to the bathroom?  I know I hear "I'm going pee!" 100 times a damn day!  I don't announce it when I need to pee.  Unless one of the kids is following me around, and I only do it then so they know that I am entering the one room that they can't follow me into(of course their cute little face is waiting right where they stopped when I open the door).  I don't hear them say what they are doing when it comes to anything else, so why must you tell me that you are going to pee?  Is this something that I really need to know?  I don't care what you do in the bathroom, as long as you don't leave a mess for me to clean up.  I don't need to know when you pee, or shit for that matter.  Bub will come from his room into whatever room I am in, or outside if that's where I am, to tell me that he has to pee.  He's the worst of the 3 of them but the other 2 do it too.  So does their dad, and pretty much every other man I know.  We can be in the middle of a conversation and all of the sudden "I need to pee!"  What?!  Where the hell did that come from?  I am seriously waiting on a phone call with a child telling me that they are going to the bathroom.  I don't need to know, I don't care.  Yes we all do it, but I don't need to know when you are.  So, can any of you explain this to me?  Someone shed some light on this for me because I just don't understand it!

I'm off, I have a baby to wake and feed and dishes to do.  As always comments are always welcome and please share my page with your friends <3

Friday, September 21, 2012

A few stories that caught my attention...

I was reading some stories on one of my mom sites tonight and there were a few that really caught my attention.  I wont be posting links to them because I don't have permission from the writer to but I will explain the story before I make my comments about it.

The first one that really got me was about a father giving his 2 year old son medical marijuana.  The back story:  This little boy was dying from stage 4 brain cancer, he went through 7 different types of chemo and went into septic shock, had a stroke and pulmonary hemorrhaging, but he was still alive.  The chemo made him so sick that he couldn't eat for 40 days.  So his dad got some cannabis oil and slipped it into his sons feeding tube without telling the Dr's.  This little boy went from knocking on deaths door to sitting up, eating and laughing.  The medical community is all pissy about it because he gave it to him and it doesn't say if charges will be filed because in the state they live in medical marijuana is legal, it isn't legal in the state where they were for this child's treatment though.

OK, so here's my opinion.  LEGALIZE IT!!!!  For those of you that know me, you all know that I am 10000000000% behind legalization.  So much so that I helped host a pro marijuana rally a few years ago as part of the World Wide Marijuana March that happens the first weekend in May.
There is a link for more info for those of you that may be interested.
Anyway, you all know how I feel about it and if it were one of my kids you better believe I would do it in a heartbeat!  I would do anything to save my child's life and if it meant giving them a little marijuana then so be it.  I will say that it may have been dangerous to give it to him not knowing how it would work with the other drugs they were pumping into him and I will go so far as to say that it was illegal, but you will never hear me say that he shouldn't have done it.  It saved his baby boys life.  Or at least gave him more time, gave him quality of life.

The next story that grabbed my attention was about a couple that has 3 boys and were elated when they found out that their 4th child was going to be a baby girl.  Sadly they lost her soon after birth.  It doesn't say what happened so no one knows if they were aware that she was going to pass away or not.  They got pregnant again through IVF with TWIN boys and chose to abort them because they want the baby girl they were robbed of.  They are currently in court to petition to select the gender for the next round of IVF and if not allowed will most likely abort if they end up with another boy.

Are you fucking serious?!  Ok, I can understand wanting a baby girl and I can even understand trying until you get one, my aunt did and had 5 boys before they had a girl.  I can understand the feeling of wanting to "replace" what they were robbed of.  I can not understand adding to the already tragic story of losing a precious baby by aborting not one but 2 babies because they were the wrong gender.  If anything I would think that they would be elated that they were pregnant again and were being blessed with 2 kids!  I think a woman has the right to choose what to do with her body, and if that means having an abortion then that's her thing to deal with.  I am sure its a hard decision to make and I am sure that it is something that haunts many women for the rest of their lives, but I do not agree with what they are doing.  It isn't like they weren't TRYING to get pregnant, they PAID to get pregnant!  If you can afford to get IVF you can afford to raise whatever child(ren) you have as a result of it.  I would say they shouldn't be allowed to have the treatments again because of that they did, or are doing, but that's just my opinion and as great as it would be to not allow certain people to have kids, no one is allowed to decide that but the woman who has to carry the baby.

Well my lovelies I must go, I have a screaming baby to tend to.  As always comments are always welcome and please share my page with your friends <3

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

What to do...

I live on a main road into a neighborhood. I expect a pot of traffic to come through and it doesn't bother me. As a matter of fact me and worm like to sit outside and watch the cars go by because it entertains him and it makes him smile and squeal. What I don't like is to see people flying down the road going 40+ trying to jump the old covered railroad tracks. What I don't like is to watch people lose control of their cars and run up into my yard, my neighbors yards and take out light poles, fences and bushes. There is one speed limit sign at the end of the road and it is clearly marked 25mph. We live next door to a school, and i mean literally next door. So not only is it a school zone through here but it is a residential area. I have kids that play in this yard. The neighbors have kids that play in their yards and the court. People walk their kids to and from school down this road and kids ride their bikes and whatnot up and ddown through here. Someone is going to get killed. Let me tell y'all something, of one of my kids gets hit by a speeding car I will be in jail for murdering some moron. I have called several times to ask for patrol to be upped through here. The neighbors have called several times about this. Cops have been called because someone took out the power pole across the street and a fence and someone's bushes.  Im over calling to make reports. I am over calling the traffic division to ask for help. Its time to take action. I will he at the next city meeting and i will make sure I am heard. If nothing is done after that I'm going to have to go to the news because this is ridiculous. From now on when i am sitting out here I will have a pen and paper and I'll be writing down the license plate number to every person speeding through here, or at least the make and model of the car. I will have my list when I go to the meeting and I'll be talking to the neighbors about attending as well.

If my gyno asked as many questions as my daughter appointments would take hours...

Worm was super fussy so i decided to get him his bath a little early tonight in hopes of calming him down and getting him to sleep. So i got the bath ready and me and him got in and, like always, I was making him splash and talking to him while I washed him. Well miss priss and the boys were still up while this was going on(yes they were supervised) and lil miss came busting in the bathroom to "help" me wash him. So i let her help and she was doing great!  She was talking to him and being really gentle with him and all that good stuff. So after he was washed I got him out and passed him off and got ready to wash myself. Well...lil miss decides to hang around while I was washing and holy hell she had a lot of questions!  The first being "why do you have hair on your vagina?"  *sigh*  my first thought was "because mommy hasn't had enough time or energy to shave her pits let alone her vag" but i kept it simple and told her that everyone gets hair on their private parts when they get older. That seemed to satisfy her so i went back to washing my hair and she decided to ask a few more questions...why do you have boobs?  Will I have boobs when i get bigger? Why do you shave your legs?  Why is your tummy so gross?  And the did Sylas get out of your tummy?  Not wanting to ignore her I was giving her censored answers. I have boobs because God gave them to me to feed my babies. Yes you will. Because boys don't like boys don't like hairy women. Because I had 4 babies grow in it and it stretches the skin out and it never goes back to normal.  And the big one...I was really tempted to tell her the whole magic blanket story, mainly because I didn't want to have to explain the whole thing to my 4 year old daughter, but I don't like to lie to my kids and I feel that being honest about things like sex and drugs are a fairly good way to keep them from trying it at a young age.  Kind of takes the mystery and appeal out of them in a sense.  So anyway, after some thought I told her that all 4 of them were put there by daddy.  This sparked the question "why did daddy put us there?"  To which I responded "so I could grow you."  How did daddy get us to put us there?  *Sigh* I should have known this one was coming.  Well, adults have sex and that's how you got there.  Whats sex?  At this point I was ready to just sink under the water and pretend that I couldn't hear her anymore, and possibly drown myself to avid having to answer anymore of these questions, but I didn't (obviously since I am typing this lol).  Sex is when a man and a woman get naked and the man puts his penis in the womans vagina.  EEWWWW GGGGRRRROOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!! I would NEVER do that!  Haha good!  Thankfully that answer grossed her out enough to not ask anymore questions about sex and she moved on to asking about other things, like why my hair is so long and why I'm so fat and why I have to wear glasses.  I wasn't about to tell her that sex isn't gross, its actually something that she will not only want to do, but enjoy, later in life.  That's a conversation to have when shes about 10 years older and I am already dreading it!  I learned a something from our conversation.  The first thing, don't let your kid come in the bathroom with you while you shower(or take a bath) unless you want to answer some serious questions.  Kids have no brain to mouth filter and the most important thing I learned, kids don't worry about hurt feelings or offending anyone.  They simply want to know things and they will ask in the most blunt way possible to get those answers.
Well I'm off to get some things done.  I'll try to post again later, it's been awhile and I have lots to share!  As always comments are always welcome and please share my page with your friends <3